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Shame on you, California Supreme Court

I now belong to a “special” group of approximately 18,000 who are married in the state of California even though the constitution does not allow us to be married.  As Ana Marie Cox tweeted:

“CA Supreme Court follows People vs. KFC precedent: no more gay marriage except for 18,000 who already used coupon.” (via @pourmecoffee)

I know there are probably many good logical spins to explain how/why a court who declared us a suspect class has now upheld discrimination against us, but I do not get it. Page 7 of the opinion is no comfort that they even meant anything  they wrote a year ago:

Nor does Proposition 8 fundamentally alter the meaning and substance of state constitutional equal protection principles as articulated in that opinion. Instead, the measure carves out a narrow and limited exception to these state constitutional rights, reserving the official designation of the term “marriage” for the union of opposite-sex couples as a matter of state constitutional law, but leaving undisturbed all of the other extremely significant substantive aspects of a same-sex couple’s state constitutional right to establish an officially recognized and protected family relationship and the guarantee of equal protection of the laws.

This sounds like an awfully thin curtain of one word dividing first class citizens from second class citizens. So my family has the right to a recognized and protected relationship, but the word, when clearly words matter, is solely reserved for opposite-sex couples, even though that word has clear advantages and rights that are being denied to same-sex couples.

At least Justice Moreno included a piece of Varnum v. Brien (Iowa 2009) 763 N. W.2d 862,877 as the introduction to his opinion:

[T]he ‘absolute equity of all’ persons before the law [is] ‘the very foundation principle of our government.’

My entry into a special class

My entry into a special class

“protecting the moat while we allow the castle to burn down”

That’s what San Francisco Deputy City Attorney Therese Stewart said today during the Prop 8 oral arguments at the California Supreme Court.  I love that quote.  Every time I read it I think of Lucy’s last birthday party with this castle that our friend Fred built.  A lot of Prop 8, for me, is about protecting my family, and particularly protecting my kid (which is what marriage is about).

Protection and Prop 8

This morning we took a much longer walk to get to preschool than usual.  We were avoiding the protests at the state building.  Lucy’s preschool is in the same state building as the California supreme court.  Usually we’d walk right up the steps where the protest was.  Today we took a wide berth and walked a block away around and through the other entrance.  Lucy wanted to know why we got off the streetcar one stop earlier and then why there were so many people and signs in front of “her school.” I asked her why she thought they were there.  She said, “It must be somebody’s birthday. It looks like a birthday party. But the signs look just black and white so they aren’t very colorful or pretty.”(We were too far away for her to see signs with rainbows)

We took a wide berth and walked 3 extra blocks and avoided the protest to protect her.  She doesn’t yet need to know that anyone thinks her parents don’t deserve to be married.  She only needs to know love and support and confidence in her family and friends.  At the Prop 8 Town Hall last week an adult woman stood up and talked, through tears, about how sad she felt when prop8 passed because her moms are married.

I was thinking about this protection when I was leaving the state building after dropping Lucy off at preschool.  She was happy on the couch with her friends, surrounded by teachers and kids who are all her friends and supporters.  Outside it was much different.  There were signs opposing gay marriage purporting that opposing our marriage also “protects” children.  And then there were all the children holding or standing with adults who were holding varieties of yes-on-8 signs.

Why do they bring their kids into this if they purport to protect children?  I like to give them the benefit of the doubt and hope they aren’t teaching their children to hate.  I hope.

A Letter From The Morning After

My friend Pat Goldman forwarded this article from the November 7, 2008 The Recorder to me as a PDF so I converted it to JPG for “easier” online reading.  It’s not available for online reading unless you are a callaw.com subscriber.  If you are a callaw.com subscriber, you can access it here.

A Letter From The Morning After by Jan Vaughn Mock

“This is my reality today, my friends. My right to walk down the aisle has been taken away and there is nothing I can do about it.”

(if you, of course, can’t read the small pic here, click on it to get to a larger version of it on Flickr)